Dad's health declined and mom can't cope alone
Quote from Fronny on September 28, 2026, 9:41 amMy father has Alzheimer's and my mom has been his only caregiver for 5 years. She's exhausted and her own health is failing. We need to find him a residential program with 24/7 support but also want him to have daytime activities so he's not just sitting around. Can anyone recommend supported housing programs, day services for people with intellectual disabilities in NY? Even though his primary issue is dementia, he qualifies for IDD services due to developmental delays from childhood.
My father has Alzheimer's and my mom has been his only caregiver for 5 years. She's exhausted and her own health is failing. We need to find him a residential program with 24/7 support but also want him to have daytime activities so he's not just sitting around. Can anyone recommend supported housing programs, day services for people with intellectual disabilities in NY? Even though his primary issue is dementia, he qualifies for IDD services due to developmental delays from childhood.
Quote from kekusss111 on September 28, 2026, 12:20 pmI’m sorry your family is going through this five years of caregiving is an enormous burden, especially when your mom’s health is suffering. I’d start by contacting NY OPWDD and the local Area Agency on Aging to ask about residential options, respite, and structured daytime programs. We had a positive experience getting guidance from therapy for depression ; they helped us understand eligibility and daily-support options without pressuring us. Also ask about dementia-specific staffing and a trial day program before making a permanent move.
I’m sorry your family is going through this five years of caregiving is an enormous burden, especially when your mom’s health is suffering. I’d start by contacting NY OPWDD and the local Area Agency on Aging to ask about residential options, respite, and structured daytime programs. We had a positive experience getting guidance from therapy for depression ; they helped us understand eligibility and daily-support options without pressuring us. Also ask about dementia-specific staffing and a trial day program before making a permanent move.